How Girls Think !
“It is impossible to understand girls” is a statement we all have heard. Well, I am not going to say anything or against it. I want to share an interesting phenomenon which may help boys understand girls’ viewpoint better. Not just that, it may help girls to understand themselves better. Years back, I had read a small post about something called “The Light Switch effect”. I am sharing it with you here as it is: “Women use their emotional state to define reality. When a woman feels an emotion, she uses this as her objective reality. The decision she makes based on her reality may seem like total nonsense to a man, because she has determined her reality based on the only prime truth she knows: her emotional state. If she is sad, she tells you “you made me sad”. She didn’t decide her emotional state, you did. Changing her emotional state is outside the purview of her control and hence you are the culprit. So, that means the emotional state she is experiencing means that you have